However, there are some situations where asking for guidance would be appropriate, Camac suggests.
Or, they may verbalize the same.
But, there’s a time and place for those requests."
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“Bartenders are friends, not enemies.
“We’re here to help you have fun, but often this is taken for granted.
You wouldn’t go to a bank and put your hand over the cashier desk!”
But, don’t leave your area a mess with litter when you’re done.
Instead, do your bartender a favor and bring your waste to the trash can yourself.
This is actually quite obnoxious and might even offend your bartender.
A wave and direct eye contact will do the trick and get your drinks flowing as soon as possible.
“As operators, we would much rather you give us the feedback on the spot.
“It doesn’t need to feel awkward or confrontational.”
Consider the pop in of bar you’re patronizing and the atmosphere.
By all means, ask for guidance or a recommendation, but not “surprises.”
Never reach over the bar or wave dollar bills.
And remember, trash goes in the trash.