This ubiquitous gear doesnt belong at the Thanksgiving dinner table.
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Thanksgiving is a holiday that celebrates togetherness, being grateful andeating delicious food.
Why Is Etiquette Important?
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Etiquette goes beyond knowing which fork to use.
Read on to find out why and what other behaviors are best avoided.
Etiquette experts say one of those places is at the Thanksgiving table.
Sharing a meal is about togetherness, and a cellphone is a disruption and a distraction.
Spending time on your phone shows youre not interested in being with the people around you.
Bringing along a friend without asking can throw off the hosts plans.
Musayeva says it can create logistical issues for the host, from seating arrangements to food portions.
Even if you think there’s enough food, bringing an uninvited guest is rude, says Grotts.
So what should you do if you want someone to join who isnt on the guest list?
But complaining about the food isnt the way to go.
And any remark that disrespects the meal, no matter how minor, undermines these values.
You also dont want to criticize the hosts cooking skills, says Leighton.
Salting your food automatically can be offensive to the person who cooked it.
Thanksgiving is typically a sit-down meal, so arriving on time is key for a smooth experience.
It conveys a lack of respect for the effort the host has put in to bring everyone together.
Thanksgiving is about being together and enjoying each others company so steering clear of challenging topics is best.
Avoid controversial topics that could stir emotions or conflict, says Musayeva.
Focus on topics that are inclusive and neutral.
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